I think one thing that really helps in early sobriety is to bring a healthy level of curious, upbeat energy to the entire process.
I know that seems like a tough thing to muster at times..anything of an upbeat nature that is. Things are often quite grim and hard work in those early days and weeks. Cravings, grumpiness, tears, bad sleep, bad skin… all measure of nasties can fly at us when we quit.
Why would you want to bring a curious, upbeat energy to that?
Because, trust me, there are better things around the corner. Revelatory things. Positive things. Beneficial things.
In getting sober you are embarking on a massive life change. You are grinding your way through a period of major personal growth. And you are likely to emerge from this process a better, calmer, more well-rounded, and more authentic version of yourself.
Yet at the beginning it’s impossible to know exactly what is in store.
IT’S GOING TO BE GREAT!
It’s hard to see it as great at first because it’s such a long-winded and grim process.. but trust me, in years to come you are going to look back and marvel at the lengths you have come.
You’re likely to figure some shit out about yourself that will astound you.
You’re likely to realise things you had no clue were going on.
You’re likely to uncover truths that will be revelatory and beneficial.
You’re likely to discard misguided beliefs that have been dragging you down for years.
You’re likely to achieve new things you never thought possible.
You’re likely to ditch things you never thought you could get rid of.
This IS a really exciting process! Trust in it. Be curious about it. Be fearless and brave and back yourself to manage it.
Tell yourself to hang in there NO MATTER WHAT because around the corner there are developments awaiting you that will seriously rock your world for the better.
Don’t believe me? Go to the Sober Stories page on this site and read them. Read them one after another. Every single person who has shared their Sober Story with us talks about how their life was radically transformed for the better after they got sober.
It doesn’t happen overnight. But it does happen.
Belive. Trust. Grind through and remember to bring your curious & upbeat energy to this wonderfully challenging and rewarding process.
You won’t regret it.
Love, Mrs D xxx